Accepting where you are right now is going to help because you can immediately begin changing things, by changing your attitude towards the men that are coming your way. I received profile after profile of men in camouflage with guns, proudly showing off their most recent deer (or insert other animal here) kill. They were out to show me (and other women) that they were expert hunters and could provide. Once I began to look at it differently, I soon attracted a man who was a practicing vegetarian, and began dating him long term.
Even if you’re not attracted to the men sitting in your inbox, and their profiles read as if a 3rd grader wrote it – these are men who have found you desirable and want to take you on a date. I’m a big believer in what we put out is what we attract, and day after day I witness the power of expressing gratitude.
But constantly trying to talk to him about commitment feels stressful to him and will only make him dig in his heels and retreat — even if he was on the verge of committing all on his own.
That’s certainly not the vibe you want to create in a loving relationship.
You can't do this if you close yourself off to other men before you have the commitment you desire.
By meeting lots of people, you open yourself up to discovering a truly great match.
A man falls in love when he feels like he can make you happy by being himself and sharing the deepest parts of who he is. By opening up and sharing your feelings, you allow him to connect to you and the positive experience you are sharing.
By rejecting those parts, you make him feel wrong and cause him to protect his true feelings — and his heart — from connecting with yours.3. It makes him feel good that he makes you feel good, and he'll want more of that good stuff.