After sex at work, it’s so nice to come home to the real thing.”Sigh... Please correct me if I'm wrong, but what I understand from your article and comment is that it's okay to watch porn and masturbate to it, as long as you remember that it's a fantasy and don't try to imitate it in your real sex... Those two things seem like paradoxes, especially since everything we do, including watching porn, is "learning" for our brain, as in teaching our brain to make, strengthen, and weaken connections.
Of course, the genitals are important in lovemaking and oral sex can feel wonderful. “Work sex can be exciting,” Marie explains, “but it’s not satisfying like our personal sex. For sex to feel satisfying, I need more than hardcore action.I need emotional fulfillment.”Marie and Jack sometimes slip into porn sex at home.When men imitate pornography, they often ejaculate quickly.(On my site, Great Sex After40, the article on curing premature ejaculation is by far my biggest best-seller.) Every Man Comes on Cue.