If you’re having a hard time putting your romantic c.v.together, consider asking your friends what they love about spending time with you.
by Subhasis Chatterjee Learn the pros, cons, myths and basics of online dating.
(If you’re still at a loss, at least mark “modesty” as one of your chief virtues.) Just don’t get carried away.
Getting hyperbolic about your achievements may attract a few more interested parties, but it’s a bad idea to misrepresent yourself.
Women especially can find that intimidating, and since there have been a few scare stories about internet dating, people can be wary.
Statistics again show that early use of terms like “email”, “gmail”, “chat”, “msn”, “yahoo” et cetera in discussions can scare people off.
regarding how to get dates with women using online dating. Over the last year or so, I have pulled all online dating data, information and techniques from these sources: 1. All of the past online dating articles from this blog and its archives. All of my past online dating posts from various forums over the years, including Next ASF and m ASF. My online dating notes from the past nine years, much of which I have never published or revealed. A massive archive of emails I’ve received from men all over the world over the past nine years, describing their field-tested online dating techniques that have worked for them, much of which I have never revealed to the public.
Stand out from the crowd, rather than drowning the reader in cliché. Talk about actual interests: sports, books, art, music, films. Similarly, don't tell us you've got a good sense of humour – generally, people who have to say they do, don't. Keep it light, keep it funny, keep it confident (but not arrogant). On a similar note, make sure it's not a weird photo.
Of course you're a good friend, of course you like to have fun. Describe your best features (but try not to boast). Obviously this means different things for different things, but a few pointers: if you're a man, flexing your biceps and/or posing topless is not as sexy as you may think it is; if you're a woman, try not to be overly posed.
And when you do meet up, remember: it's the same as ordinary dating.
You still have to dress nicely, make small talk, laugh at their jokes.