Some toys will vibrate, which is a completely different kind of sensation that some guys like and others don’t.
If you’re going to try a vibrator, be sure to get one with variable speed, so you can start slow if you want to.
Anal sex toys can be a great way to explore prostate stimulation.
Toys that have a slight curve are often designed for prostate stimulation.
You never want to rush the penetration part of anal play. The perineum is located between the scrotum and the anus.
Many people find that massaging the perineum is relaxing and pleasurable.
Having a warm bath or hot shower may help alleviate anxiety about this.
Some people like the feeling of consistent pressure on the prostate, others prefer vibration or an on-off kind of pressure.
You can also experiment by squeezing your PC muscle and see how that changes the feeling.
Gently put the pad of one finger up to the opening of the anus and leave it there while you breathe.
When you are exhaling, push out as if you’re trying to go to the bathroom and you should feel your sphincter muscles relax a bit and your finger should be able to slide in.