Here are the six types of guys you should definitely steer clear of while man hunting online.1. I’m Just Tryna Get Some: This fellow is attractive, successful, in his mid-20s to early-30s and is not afraid to use copy-paste message flattery to try to get in your pants. I’m Here To Get Over Her: Ever wonder why you felt like you hit it off with a guy online and out of nowhere he just stopped responding to your messages? I’m Here To Get Over Her.” He honestly believes he is ready to let go of his past relationship and start over, but she still owns his heart. I Fear Rejection: This guy makes up the majority of male online daters.After posting an article on “10 Played-Out Online Dating Messages That Guys Send Women,” one reader shared her story about a guy named “Ritzy” from Plenty Of Fish — a handsome, charismatic lawyer — who sent her and three of her friends the same message: Turned out he sent me the same message a week prior. Every message he receives or sends just reaffirms his need for her — especially if he begins sensing a connection with someone that may threaten his unwavering love for her. He refuses to put even an ounce of effort into message exchange, because he has been burned in the past by women who never respond or often don’t care to extend the relationship beyond the realm of the digital world.He doesn’t see himself as a sugar daddy and does not want to give you gifts in exchange for your company, because he wants you to want him, regardless of the fact that he may be decades older than you are.Preying on the young is his way of never getting old.Whereas before a man just needed to be the best looking guy at work to get a date with a colleague, now he needed to be in the top 10% of all men to get a date with one of the women in his city.” This is the double-edged sword of online dating.You have far more access to singles than ever before. Which means that there’s also far more COMPETITION.
Stop blaming Match or women or your city for your failures and learn to market yourself more effectively.
I received over 600 messages from men while registered with OKCupid and Plenty Of Fish.
I have a fair amount of horror stories, possibly enough to include in an HBO series called “Internet Dating Tales From The Crypt.” I am not saying that there aren’t a good deal of great guys looking to meet great girls online, but when you aren’t expecting to be bombarded with messages from creeps, freaks, jerks and everything in between, the online dating world can be a bit shocking — and not the sexy man popping out of a birthday cake kind, either.
He will send you a ridiculously unthoughtful message (typically between 1-4 words) and if you make the mistake of responding, he will ask you to exchange contact info (Facebook, number, email, etc.) before he even knows your name. IATS types are in their late-20s to late-30s and are feeling the pressure to settle down or commit.
He often has forgotten his standards and just wants anyone. They typically have careers, goals and passions, but feel as though it’s time to find a significant other to start a family with.