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If he put that spotlight on you, would YOU make the cut? They want to make sure he has the “ability to provide”.
In essence, many Christian ladies say they have faith but they don’t. They want him to have his life utterly figured out…
He doesn’t know anything about your background but you turned into a private investigator to make sure he is good enough for you.
You are financially irresponsible and an impulsive spender, you’re spending insane percentages of your income on your hair, shoes, bags, and your “package” but you want a man who knows how to make and keep money.
So stop looking for men who have it all figured out! Here is what you SHOULD be looking for: Men who can be LED by God.
(Rom ) Don’t look for a man who already has the best laid plans.
I’ve gotten a lot of one-on-one questions about this from BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and I figured it was time to write about it. As a daughter of God, he is working out your story beautifully, so bask in that. Because Girls might get offended or not understand but a mature Christian woman will probably get it and take the knowledge. A woman’s relationship status does not define her, so being single is not a disease or an indication of something “wrong” with her.I’ll tell you probably like no one has told you before.Look for one who knows how to follow directions from the best planner. Many ladies approach relationships from the perspective of “Low Risk, High Reward”: Meaning, they want to get the absolute best man with the least amount of risk.(And I’m not just talking about finances here)They don’t want to put themselves out there at all.