You say you love this girl, so do all you can to help ease her fears about having an STD.
One site, H2Ofriends.com, lists events for people with herpes in some 40 cities, from San Francisco, California, to Cedar Rapids, Iowa. ' My friend said, 'We're the Charlotte pottery club!And this is the part where we tell you not to forget protection. Since we’re on the topic of getting pregnant, you may want to treat her the same way as if you had accidentally knocked her up. Take her to the doctor, because it’s your damn fault she needs to go in the first place.It’s not about accidentally getting someone pregnant anymore—babies won’t kill you, but some STDs will. You can coo over cute photos and laugh at stupid videos of them all day. Support her through her stages of denial, and grief, and bear her anger and sadness.And they don't have to worry about spreading herpes, since the other members already have it.Pam says at first, people are very nervous about joining, because it may be the first time they identify themselves as having herpes."People show up for their first support group meeting and sometimes they turn right around at the door because they don't have the courage to come in," said Pam.