It’s not the only way to do it, but I’m confident that it’s the most effective one.I agree with Evan’s advice about waiting for sex if NSA sex does not suit you.Our chemistry was immediate (physical, intellectual, and emotional) and things have been very easy so far. I am totally comfortable with the speed (how often we are communicating, seeing each other, and sharing information about ourselves).But, we recently slept together (it felt right and was great).Finally, if you DID bring it up, he would probably laugh because he already thought of you as his girlfriend already.Share this with your friends who want to know a healthy relationship timeline.
But, in short, if you are the type of woman who does not like the feeling of sleeping with a man when you have no idea whether he’s your boyfriend, STOP sleeping with men who are not your boyfriend.
It’s the kind of thing that will be defined naturally by him calling you every day, spending every weekend with you, introducing you to his friends and family, and so on.
In other words, you should both “know” what you are without a heavy discussion.
You can theoretically have unprotected sex with a stranger in the bathroom of a bar and end up spending the rest of your life with him.
That does not inherently make this an effective strategy. Don’t stop seeing other guys until he’s acting like your boyfriend In my 11 years as a dating coach, I’ve repeatedly seen the power of chemistry.