Since every physical act sends a message—even a punch speaks volumes—we must consider what our actions will “say” before we act.
In romantic relationships, the goal is to communicate in a loving, giving manner—to be affectionate.
When it comes to intimacy, the million-dollar question is “How far is too far?
Or these things can be the very things that hold us down.
Positive women are extremely attractive to emotionally-healthy men – the kind you want to be involved with. The first step is to identify which of these beliefs you might be saying to yourself or holding on to in the first place. Once you do, consciously make it a point to turn each belief around as soon as it comes up. Men are naturally drawn to women who are really able to be fully present in the moment, and they are turned off by women who are thinking about the next date, or the next month, or the next 10 years.
That’s why, when you take time to enjoy the connection that you’re sharing with a man, and don’t try and rush ahead, this is when a man will be the one who actually starts thinking ahead on his own.
Part of the attraction a man feels for you at the beginning is that you are new to him, and he’s like a little kid discovering all the amazing things about you. Create tension and interest by not always doing or saying the “obvious” thing.
This will keep him thinking and wondering about you and get him doing things to get more of your time and attention.